I find the atmosphere just right to ask the following question, one that has bugged me for years:
If offered a Perfect Ideal World, where Tony would never find out and consign you to slumber with the finny denizens of the deep, and where your own spousal unit would be equally uninclined to vengeful wrath, who would you do?
Carmela Soprano, or Meadow Soprano?
Me: Carm. As long as she asked nicely. I have my own reasons.
But I'd love to hear your own rationale.